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Pillars of Islam

Five Pillars of Islam:

1. Declaration of faith: There is no deity (divine being) except Allah, and Muhammad is the Prophet of Allah

2. Salat: Five daily ritual prayers

3. Zakat: Charity

4. Sawm: Fasting during Ramadan

5. Hajj: Pilgrima... Read more

TECHNIQUES FOR GENERATING IDEAS

In general, entrepreneurs identify more ideas than opportunities because many ideas are typically generated to find the best way to capitalize on an opportunity. Several techniques can be used to stimulate and facilitate the generation of new ideas f... Read more

The 3 sources of business ideas

1. Observing Trends

The first approach to identifying opportunities is to observe trends and study how they create opportunities for entrepreneurs to pursue. The most important trends to follow are economic trends, social trends, technological adv... Read more

The 3 sources of business ideas
Success depends on Well Concentrated Efforts

The Successful Lives Are the Concentrated Lives.  

Concentration means success, because you are better able to govern yourself and centralize your mind; you become more in earnest in what you do and this almost invariably improves your chances f... Read more

Scientists Reveal Two Simple Words That Can Improve Your Relationship

The research found that greater levels of perceived gratitude protect couples from common stressors such as ineffective arguing and financial problems and promote relationship stability.

• The power of “thank you” – Feeling appreciated by ... Read more

Scientists Reveal Two Simple Words That Can Improve Your Relationship
Study: People With Depression Are Less Likely To Have Children

Depression is a mental health condition characterized by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and lack of interest or pleasure in activities. It can also cause physical symptoms such as fatigue, changes in appetite and sleep patterns, and di... Read more

Study: People With Depression Are Less Likely To Have Children
Writing a thank-you note is more powerful than you think

Writing thank-you notes is not just good manners. It can have a strong psychological effect for both the sender and receiver, suggests research published in the September 2018 issue of Psychological Science.

While most people consider showing an ... Read more

Writing a thank-you note is more powerful than you think
Giving thanks can make you happier

Each holiday season comes with high expectations for a cozy and festive time of year. However, for many this time of year is tinged with sadness, anxiety, or depression. Certainly, major depression or a severe anxiety disorder benefits most from prof... Read more

Eating Ultra-Processed “Ready-To-Eat-or-Heat” Foods Linked to Premature Death

A new study found that increased consumption of ultra-processed foods was associated with more than 10% of all-cause premature, preventable deaths in Brazil in 2019. This is especially alarming, because Brazilians consume far less of these products t... Read more

Eating Ultra-Processed “Ready-To-Eat-or-Heat” Foods Linked to Premature Death
Study shows the power of 'thank you' for couples

Gratitude has been a trendy sentiment in recent years – sparking an industry of journals, knickknacks and T-shirts touting thankfulness as a positive force in individuals’ lives.

New research suggests that gratitude from one’s partner may be... Read more

Mini relaxation technique to overcome grief

Dealing with grief and loss is extremely stressful. During this time it may help to take mini-relaxation breaks. If you have three minutes, try this: While seated, take a break to check your body for tension. Relax your facial muscles and allow your ... Read more

Mini relaxation technique to overcome grief
Scientists: Put Down Your Devices and Let Your Mind Wander

Taking some time to just sit and think might be far more enjoyable than you expect.

People don’t realize how enjoyable it is to sit and think.

According to research from the American Psychological Association, people often underestimate how m... Read more

Scientists: Put Down Your Devices and Let Your Mind Wander
Using digital media to relax is related to lower-quality parenting

Caregivers who consume digital media for relaxation are more likely to engage in negative parenting practices, according to a new multinational study.

The new study led by the University of Waterloo aimed to investigate the relationship between ... Read more

Using digital media to relax is related to lower-quality parenting
Vitamin B6 supplements could reduce anxiety and depression

Taking high-dose Vitamin B6 tablets has been shown to reduce feelings of anxiety and depression by new research.

Scientists at the University of Reading measured the impact of high doses of Vitamin B6 on young adults and found that they reported ... Read more

Cyberbullying puts targeted adolescents at risk for suicide, study suggests

Beyond the many stressors that young adolescents face, being a target of cyberbullying is an independent risk factor for suicide -- above and beyond traditional offline bullying, according to a study released Monday.

That's the finding of a new st... Read more

Study shows the power of 'thank you' for couples

  2 months ago (Tue, Nov 15, 2022 at 06:19 PM)

Gratitude has been a trendy sentiment in recent years sparking an industry of journals, knickknacks and T-shirts touting thankfulness as a positive force in individuals’ lives.

New research suggests that gratitude from one’s partner may be a powerful tool for couples as well, increasing relationship satisfaction and commitment while protecting couples from the corrosive effects of ineffective arguing and financial stress.

Individuals who feel appreciated by their partners have better-functioning relationships that are more resilient to internal and external stressors, both in the...     Learn More ››








Scientists Reveal the Best Way To Calm a Crying Baby

  3 months ago (Fri, Oct 21, 2022 at 12:05 PM)

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According to scientists, the best way to calm down a baby is to take them on a 5-minute walk.

After being held and taken for a 5-minute walk, all babies who participated in the study fell asleep.

The majority of parents have been frustrated by their babies’ excessive crying and refusal to sleep. According to recent research, holding them for five minutes and walking with them is the most effective method for calming them down. This evidence-based soothing method is detailed in a paper recently published in Current Biology.

“Many parents suffer from babies’ nighttime crying,” ...     Learn More ››








Science Reveals: How Does a Breakup Impact Your Sense of Control?

  4 months ago (Sun, Oct 09, 2022 at 07:49 AM)

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After a breakup, people feel less in control. But don’t worry, it is only temporary.

The research examined how people’s feelings of control changed following separation, divorce, or the death of a spouse.

According to a recent investigation of individuals who experienced various kinds of relationship loss, these events were associated with different patterns of short- and long-term sense of control after the loss. Eva Asselmann of HMU Health and Medical University in Potsdam, Germany, and Jule Specht of Humboldt University of Berlin, Germany, recently published their findings in the ...     Learn More ››








Researchers Find Ways to Help Teens Get More Sleep

  4 months ago (Wed, Oct 05, 2022 at 03:17 PM)

Adjusting to a new sleep schedule at the start of the school year can lead to disturbed rest, daytime fatigue and changes in mood and focus for teens.

Although they need eight to 10 hours of sleep per night to maintain physical health, emotional well-being and school performance, according to the National Sleep Foundation and the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, most adolescents get less than eight, especially on school nights.

Newly published research from RUSH in the journal SLEEP sheds light on how adolescents can get more shut-eye.

“There are a lot of changes a teen goes th...     Learn More ››








Sufficient sleep associated with life satisfaction in parents, new study finds

  4 months ago (Mon, Sep 26, 2022 at 05:42 AM)

New research findings from a multi-university research team that includes Danielle Symons Downs, professor of kinesiology and obstetrics and gynecology and associate director of the Social Science Research Institute at Penn State, show that for new and established parents getting sufficient sleep plays an important role in their mental health and, in turn, life satisfaction.

The research team analyzed sleep, physical activity, mental health and life satisfaction in couples. Their findings, published in the journal Sleep Health, indicated meeting sleep guidelines was associated with better m...     Learn More ››








Study suggests watching TV with your child can help their cognitive development

  4 months ago (Mon, Sep 26, 2022 at 05:23 AM)

Over the past 30 years, the number of television programs targeting infants has been increasing. Between 1997 and 2014, screen time doubled among children aged 0 to 2 years.

A new study, published in Frontiers in Psychology, has examined the impact passive screen use has on a young child's cognitive development. It found that screen exposure—whether that be from a TV or mobile device—can be beneficial, depending on the context in which it's viewed.

Researchers from the University of Portsmouth and Paris Nanterre University, France, have analyzed 478 studies published in the past two ...     Learn More ››








Scientists say the best way to soothe a crying infant is by carrying them on a 5-minute walk

  4 months ago (Thu, Sep 15, 2022 at 10:38 AM)

Most parents have experienced frustration when their infants cry excessively and refuse to sleep. Scientists have found that the best strategy to calm them down is by holding and walking with them for five minutes. This evidence-based soothing strategy is presented in a paper published September 13 in the journal Current Biology.

"Many parents suffer from babies' nighttime crying," says corresponding author Kumi Kuroda of the RIKEN Center for Brain Science in Japan. "That's such a big issue, especially for inexperienced parents, that can lead to parental stress and even to in...     Learn More ››








Research shows healthy communication after divorce should be all about the kids

  4 months ago (Tue, Sep 13, 2022 at 03:09 PM)

When it comes to keeping the lines of communication open after a divorce, West Virginia University researchers Jonathon Beckmeyer and Jessica Troilo say you can have far too much of a good thing.

Their study of 708 divorced parents of children under 18 shows that even innocuous chitchat between divorced co-parents can put children's well-being at risk. Simply put, "limit any communication to shared parenting issues," the researchers suggest.

Beckmeyer, an assistant professor at WVU's College of Applied Human Sciences, and Troilo, CAHS interim associate dean for academic affairs...     Learn More ››








Studies show children don't believe everything they are told

  4 months ago (Tue, Sep 13, 2022 at 02:52 PM)

Children learn on their own through observation and experimentation. They also learn from what other people tell them, especially adults and authority figures like their parents and teachers. When children learn something surprising, they seek out additional information by asking questions or by testing claims. Prior research shows that whether children explore adults' surprising claims varies by age, with children over six years of age more likely to seek out additional information than four- and five-year-olds. However, there is limited research about why children seek information in respons...     Learn More ››








Using digital media to relax is related to lower-quality parenting

  5 months ago (Thu, Aug 25, 2022 at 11:57 AM)

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Caregivers who consume digital media for relaxation are more likely to engage in negative parenting practices, according to a new multinational study.

The new study led by the University of Waterloo aimed to investigate the relationship between caregivers’ use of digital media, mental health, and parenting practices at the start of the COVID-19 pandemic. On average, caregivers spend three to four hours a day consuming digital media.

“All members of the family matter when we try to understand families in a society saturated with technology,” said Jasmine Zhang, lead author of th...     Learn More ››








Too Risky to Wed in Your 20s? Not if You Avoid Cohabiting First

  5 months ago (Mon, Aug 15, 2022 at 08:23 AM)

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Research shows that marrying young without ever having lived together with a partner makes for some of the lowest divorce rates.

It’s now marriage proposal season—the time between Thanksgiving and Valentine’s Day when nearly 40% of couples decide to get engaged. The holidays tend to put people in mind of marriage. So what’s the best age to put a ring on it?

It’s a question that weighs especially heavily on educated women, who find themselves caught between their career ambitions and pressure to settle down and start a family. The conventional wisdom is that they should get laun...     Learn More ››








After breakups, people feel less in-control—but only at first

  6 months ago (Thu, Aug 04, 2022 at 10:23 AM)

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A new analysis of people who underwent different types of relationship loss found that these experiences were linked with different patterns of short- and long-term sense of control following the loss. Eva Asselmann of the HMU Health and Medical University in Potsdam, Germany, and Jule Specht of Humboldt-Universität zu Berlin, Germany, present these findings in PLOS ONE on August 3, 2022.

Previous research has shown that a greater perceived sense of personal control over one's life is associated with better well-being and better health. Romantic relationships are closely linked to perceive...     Learn More ››








Drug misuse and suicidal behaviour more common on the anniversary of a parent’s death – new research

  6 months ago (Sat, Jul 30, 2022 at 11:53 AM)

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Losing a parent during adolescence and young adulthood can be particularly damaging to mental health and wellbeing. Our latest research has now shown that young people who lost a parent were more likely to be admitted to hospital for treatment for substance misuse use problems or suicidal behaviour around the anniversary of their parents’ death.

We conducted a large study of nearly 2 million people using population data collected in Sweden between 2001 and 2014. To understand whether there was a greater risk of substance misuse or suicidal behaviour around the anniversaries of a parent’...     Learn More ››








Women achieving childbearing desires drives contraception use

  7 months ago (Tue, Jun 28, 2022 at 04:24 PM)

Study finds more alignment in reproductive desires and behaviors

The
increased use of contraception in many countries is not because more women at any moment want to delay pregnancy or have no further children. Instead, it is because contraception is helping more women achieve their childbearing goals.

This is the overwhelming conclusion from a study of national survey data from 59 low- and middle-income countries around the world.

Results showed that 85-90% of the change in contraception use is attributable to meeting the prevalent demand for reproductive control, versus only 10-15%...     Learn More ››








Similarities in body odor may contribute to social bonding

  7 months ago (Tue, Jun 28, 2022 at 04:05 PM)

Researchers have found that people may have a tendency to form friendships with individuals who have a similar body odor. The researchers were even able to predict the quality of social interactions between complete strangers by first “smelling” them with a device known as an electronic nose, or eNose. These findings, published in Science Advances, suggest that the sense of smell may play a larger role in human social interactions than previously thought.

Anyone who has ever walked a dog knows that their canine can usually tell from a distance whether an approaching dog is friend or foe...     Learn More ››








Relationships are best between people of similar desirability, study finds

  7 months ago (Fri, Jun 24, 2022 at 02:48 PM)

Research shows people of similar desirability are most likely to pair up, have long-lasting and successful relationships.

Everyone remembers those old high school movies where the ultra-nerdy teenage boy falls in love with a the most beautiful girl in the whole school. The movie begins with the girl not knowing anything about the geeky leading man that most wouldn’t consider a strong partner, but by the end, she’s fallen for him too. It’s a classic romantic movie formula.

However, new research from the University of Missouri suggests these relationships might be best left to the mo...     Learn More ››








Social media use sheds light on dads' mental health

  7 months ago (Sat, Jun 18, 2022 at 05:39 PM)

Deakin University researchers have mined Reddit posts and discovered that dads’ posting behaviours in the period surrounding their child’s birth can be a warning sign for depression.

One in five dads experience anxiety in the perinatal period – the time before and after their child’s birth. One in ten experience depression. However, support for fathers’ mental health in the perinatal period is limited.

‘It’s a huge public health problem that’s not really being addressed,’ says Dr Sam Teague, who was until recently a postdoctoral research fellow at Deakin’s Centre for ...     Learn More ››








Examining mechanisms linking economic insecurity to interparental conflict among couples with low income

  8 months ago (Wed, Jun 08, 2022 at 04:46 PM)

Objective:

The
current study used the family stress model to test the mechanisms by which economic insecurity contributes to mothers' and fathers' mental health and couples' relationship functioning.

Background:

Although low household income has been a focus of poverty research, material hardship—defined as everyday challenges related to making ends meet including difficulties paying for housing, utilities, food, or medical care—is common among American families.

Methods:

Participants were from the Building Strong Families project. Couples were racially diverse (43.52% Blac...     Learn More ››








BEFORE YOU SAY, "I DO"

  8 months ago (Mon, Jun 06, 2022 at 11:35 AM)

Many marriage teachers, researchers, experts and counselors, after they invest their time and energy in helping struggling married couples so they stay married for many years, they usually change gear and make their focus not on helping married couples but on teaching and mentoring unmarried couples so they can prepare them for a healthy and lasting and thriving marriage.

I am no exception!

As they say, “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure!”

So, I encourage couples who are dating now and planning to get married in the future to sit and discuss on critical life issues, ...     Learn More ››








He Only Wants to Watch TikTok

  8 months ago (Sat, May 21, 2022 at 10:22 AM)

A4P Guest: I am married and have one child but I am not happy with my marriage.

A4P: Uh-oh! What’s going on with your marriage?

A4P Guest: My husband doesn’t listen to me.

A4P: Hmm! Give me some example.  








Young Adults' Questions & My Answers

  10 months ago (Mon, Apr 11, 2022 at 09:48 AM)

I had a wonderful time with young adults for the last two Fridays and we finished our program with a Q&A session and I thought it would be nice if I share with you at least five of their questions.  








Why do some men see women as a sex object?

  11 months ago (Sun, Mar 06, 2022 at 03:16 PM)

Simple and straightforward answer to that question is: Because those men are sexually sick. They watch porn and they view all women as nothing but as objects who fulfill their sexual fantasy.  








SAYING “I LOVE YOU” IN A BEDROOM

  11 months ago (Sun, Feb 13, 2022 at 03:23 PM)

It is pointless for a husband to go in bed at night and try to be romantic towards his wife saying, “I love you,” without fulfilling her needs outside the bedroom.

What are a wife’s needs outside the bedroom?  








Narcissistic ስብህና ካለው ባል ጋር እንዴት መኖር ይቻላል

  1 year ago (Tue, Nov 02, 2021 at 05:21 PM)

Narcissistic personality disorder” NPD “It is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.”  








“BUT YOU LOVED ME ANYWAY”

  1 year ago (Wed, Oct 27, 2021 at 12:45 PM)

Sitting in the dark room, in the middle of the night, he began sweating as if he ran five miles. The question which kept on coming in his mind was, “How did I end up here?”

He grew up in the church. He knows more Bible verses than anybody else. Growing up, he was considered as one of the spiritual young men who could take the next pastoral position in the church. Even as a young lad, some people used to come and ask him to pray for them.  








Quick Advice to A Divorce Woman

  1 year ago (Sun, Oct 24, 2021 at 07:30 AM)

There is this myth that some people talk about as if it was an absolute truth: “2nd marriage is always better.” When you ask them how or why, they say, “You learn how to choose the right person from your first mistake.”  








IN FRONT OF KIDS?

  1 year ago (Thu, Oct 21, 2021 at 04:34 PM)

Do you know what little children think when their parents fight in their presence?

As child psychology shows, little children blame themselves saying, “It is because of me that my parents’ are fighting. I am responsible for this.” I cannot even begin to count the negative impacts this very thinking brings into a child’s life.  








WANNA LOOK ATTRACTIVE TO MY HUBBY

  1 year ago (Wed, Oct 20, 2021 at 11:01 AM)

A4P Guest: “I was not overweight before I got married. After I had my two kids, I gained more than 20 pounds and I am still struggling to lose but nothing seems to work. My major problem though is my embarrassment before my husband. I feel like he doesn’t like me anymore because of the extra pounds I put on especially around my belly. I feel so unattractive. I feel exposed whenever I think of sexual intimacy. My husband repeatedly told me that he doesn’t care. Does weight gain affect sexual intimacy? What do I need to do to feel good about myself and enjoy my intimate moments with my hus...     Learn More ››








What Happens when Baby Play With Daddy

  1 year ago (Thu, Oct 14, 2021 at 03:12 PM)

What Happens when Baby Play With Daddy #02 ???? Daddy is the best  








Men Are Now More Likely to Be Single Than Women

  1 year ago (Wed, Oct 06, 2021 at 09:25 AM)

Almost a third of adult single men live with a parent. Single men are much more likely to be unemployed, financially fragile and to lack a college degree than those with a partner. They’re also likely to have lower median earnings; single men earned less in 2019 than in 1990, even adjusting for inflation. Single women, meanwhile, earn the same as they did 30 years ago, but those with partners have increased their earnings by 50%.  








What Kills Beautiful Marriages?

  1 year ago (Tue, Oct 05, 2021 at 02:57 PM)

Lots of things!

But
before I say anything, let me say this: All marriages are beautiful as long as they are under a covenant and a promise made between one man and one woman before witnesses, man and God.  








MY HUSBAND IS

  1 year ago (Thu, Sep 30, 2021 at 10:10 AM)

A4P Guest: I’ve one quick question. Is it the will of God for me to stay in my marriage if my husband is abusing me?

A4P: Hmm! Tell me more.

A4P Guest: My husband is treating me like dirt. If, for example, I say to my son (we have one four year old son) “Stop your video game now and you can play with your toys,” he will say, “Shut up! What do you know about raising kids?”
A4P: That is not good.  








SEXLESS MARRIAGES

  1 year ago (Mon, Sep 27, 2021 at 12:57 AM)

The Bible clearly says these to all husbands and wives:

“The
husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. ” 1 Corinthians 7:3-5  








A MARRIAGEABLE PERSON

  1 year ago (Thu, Sep 23, 2021 at 10:00 AM)

Wedding is a one-day thing! Whichever way you slice it, wedding mean absolutely nothing to a marriage.

It is foolishness to invest so much of time, money, effort and energy on a one-day ceremony called a wedding, ignoring the life-time journey called marriage.  








WE NEED COUNSELING

  1 year ago (Sat, Sep 04, 2021 at 04:31 PM)

A4P Guest: Is sexual immorality the only biblical ground for divorce?

A4P: Before I answer your question, let me ask you this: Why are you asking me that question? Is it because you want to get biblical knowledge or is there a personal reason and if so, what is that reason?

A4P Guest: Well, I’m married and have two little ones. My husband and I are not getting along. Argument is something that marks our marriage. We cannot hold a conversation for more than a minute without arguing and fighting.  








A WOMAN OF EVERY MAN’S DREAM

  1 year ago (Sat, Sep 04, 2021 at 04:18 PM)

After Adam and Eve sinned against God, God cursed them. Here is the last part of the curse God put on the woman.

To the woman God said, “- – – Your desire will be for your husband – – -.” Genesis 3:16

Hmm . . . what does it mean?  








A HEALTHY MARRIAGE

  1 year ago (Thu, Sep 02, 2021 at 09:04 AM)

If your marriage exhibits the following twelve features, according to marriage experts, it can be considered as “a good marriage” or a healthy marriage:

You both try your best every day to spend a certain amount of time, from five minutes to half an hour a day (or more, depending on where you live and what you do in life), to talk, not about issues that need to be solved but to talk about life in general, like, “How was your day today” kind of talk;  








EYES NEVER GET FULL

  1 year ago (Fri, Aug 20, 2021 at 11:43 AM)

Have you ever wondered about your pair of eyes?  








Appeal For Purity

  1 year ago (Mon, Aug 16, 2021 at 06:41 PM)

A4P Guest: I’m married and have a one-year old son. I used to consider myself blessed to have the most peaceful marriage ever until my husband’s mother came from Ethiopia a year ago to help us with our first child.  








Touch Your Wife's Heart

  1 year ago (Thu, Aug 12, 2021 at 05:15 PM)

Don’t you sometimes, secretly, wish if the Book of Ephesians chapter 5 goes up to verse 34 and says something like: “Husbands, when your wives come to you with a problem, don’t try to SOLVE their problem unless they specifically ask for it. Just LISTEN to their heart.” (I know the Bible is complete; I’m just saying).  








WHY DO I NEED GOOGLE?

  1 year ago (Wed, Aug 11, 2021 at 03:36 PM)

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For a happy marriage, from the many things that are mentioned by many authors, this stands tall for me:

The husband needs to know that he has to be a psychologist, a therapist, a psychiatrist, a social worker, a pastor, a general internist, a counselor, a geographer who knows direction without any GPS, an analyst of the world as well as local news, an editor and more.

That means, in short, he needs to be

Google to his wife!  








DANGEROUS ADVICE

  1 year ago (Mon, Aug 09, 2021 at 05:21 PM)

I naturally love to receive advice from people I respect the most because I saw in many instances how good advice saved my life. Going to counseling is my thing! I, long time ago, decided to myself saying: Never, ever I go through life alone! I seek counseling!  








MY MOTHER-IN-LAW

  1 year ago (Fri, Aug 06, 2021 at 09:47 AM)

A4P Guest: I’m married and have a one-year old son. I used to consider myself blessed to have the most peaceful marriage ever until my husband’s mother came from Ethiopia a year ago to help us with our first child.

A4P: What happened?

A4P Guest: My mother-in-law is a Christian, she loves God, prays a lot and all. But she pretty much wants to be the woman of the house. She criticizes my cooking, the way I handle my son and more. Her intention might be good but her action irritates me so much that I sometimes lock myself up in my bedroom for the whole day. I feel like leavi...     Learn More ››








How Can I change My Husband?

  1 year ago (Thu, Aug 05, 2021 at 11:03 AM)

Early on in my marriage, my first mission as a wife was to change my husband.

Yeap!

I first wanted to make him love reading books, other than the books he reads for his work and the Bible. I mean, think about it. I can’t live without reading books but I married a man who lives happily ever after without reading books. So, I set out to change him, to teach him how to fall asleep reading good spiritual books.

So, I read one good marriage book (I am not sure which one) and I told my husband how the author talked about husbands and how much he, my husband, could learn from the book...     Learn More ››








SIMPLY PUT – – –

  1 year ago (Mon, Aug 02, 2021 at 10:19 AM)

What mainly kills a marriage is not forgiving each other.  








He Won't Propose

  1 year ago (Sat, Jul 31, 2021 at 01:47 PM)

Some young girls get confused why their boyfriends don't propose to them even after dating them for a year or two.

They complain, "I thought he was waiting for the Valentine's Day but that day just passed; and I thought he would propose to me in the beginning of summer but that too passed. What should I need to do?"

I always ask:

"Why don't you propose to him?" :) Just kidding! - I wouldn't say that in a million years! What? A woman proposing to a man? Are you serious? Listen what the Bible says:  








ONLY IF YOU WANT – – –

  1 year ago (Thu, Jul 29, 2021 at 09:28 AM)

A4P Guest: Meski, please save my marriage!

A4P:
Uh-oh! What's going on?

A4P Guest: My wife found me watching porn for the second time and she is now threatening for a divorce.

A4P: What do you mean, "for the second time?"  








A Man Given Over to Anger

  2 years ago (Mon, Jul 26, 2021 at 01:56 PM)

Yes, we’ve concluded last time saying, “Anger is a natural God-given emotion.”  








More than 1.5 million children lost a primary or secondary caregiver due to the COVID-19 pandemic

  2 years ago (Wed, Jul 21, 2021 at 05:54 PM)

More than 1.5 million children around the world are estimated to have lost at least one parent, custodial grandparent, or grandparent who lived with them due to death related to COVID-19 during the first 14 months of the pandemic, according to a new study.  








WATCHING MOVIES

  2 years ago (Wed, Jul 21, 2021 at 11:27 AM)

A4P Guest: Is it a sin to watch a movie?

A4P:
Hmm! Why are you asking this question? Are you looking for a list of things which are considered as a sin?

A4P Guest: Not exactly. I am a born again Christian and I love watching movies.

A4P: Hmm. So?  








Men’s Issues

  2 years ago (Tue, Jul 20, 2021 at 02:35 PM)

Psychologist and author, Dr. Richard Dobbins, says,

“men
typically have three issues they struggle with in life:

1. Sexual issues,
2. Anger issues, and
3. Lying about both of the above.”  








"My Husband Watches Movies"

  2 years ago (Sun, Jul 18, 2021 at 09:59 AM)

A4P Guest: I came to the US a year ago from Ethiopia. My husband grew up here in the US. He came to Ethiopia to marry me. After I came to the US, life has been tough for me mainly because my husband only wants to watch movies. He works full-time but whenever he is home, he only enjoys watching movies. I want us to pray or read the Bible together. If I start talking about anything spiritual, he is not interested to listen. So, we now fight more than we love and spent time together in peace. I am very scared with my life. What do you advise me?  








Sexual Immorality In A Marriage

  2 years ago (Tue, Jul 13, 2021 at 09:24 AM)

Some people think, all single people are struggling with sexual sin but married people are free from it the day they get married.  








SAY “NO” TO SILENT TREATMENT

  2 years ago (Wed, Jul 07, 2021 at 11:02 AM)

As some say, “The best things in life don’t come easy, but those things are the ones worth the sacrifice.”

Very true, isn’t it?

Good marriage is one of those best things in life that is worth the sacrifice.  








Unhappy Marriages Could Mean Shorter Lives for Men

  2 years ago (Thu, Jul 01, 2021 at 02:10 PM)

Men, take note: An unhappy marriage might end in divorce, but staying unhappily hitched could also raise your risk of stroke or early death, a new Israeli study suggests.  








Evidence Against Physically Punishing Kids Is Clear, Researchers Say

  2 years ago (Wed, Jun 30, 2021 at 05:41 PM)

A conclusive narrative review has found physical punishment of children is not effective in preventing child behavior problems or promoting positive outcomes and instead predicts increases in behavior problems and other poor outcomes over time.  








Love: How the feeling of power determines happy relationships

  2 years ago (Tue, Jun 29, 2021 at 02:41 PM)

Want to have a happy relationship? Make sure both partners feel they can decide on issues that are important to them. Objective power measured by income, for example, doesn't seem to play a big role, according to a new study in the "Journal of Social and Personal relationships" by the Martin Luther University Halle-Wittenberg (MLU) and the University of Bamberg. Instead, how lovers perceive power dynamics in their relationship is most important for relationship satisfaction.  








How Can I Stop

  2 years ago (Fri, Jun 25, 2021 at 02:38 PM)

“So, how can I stop watching porn?”

This
is a wrong question because the questioner seems to miss something very crucial, i.e. to ask what they need to start doing to stop watching porn.

You see, we can’t pursue two things at the same time as we can’t do two things at the same time.  








Happy Father’s Day!

  2 years ago (Sun, Jun 20, 2021 at 12:37 PM)

To all fathers, whether single or married, happy Father’s Day to you!

I want to say a special “Happy Father’s Day” to those of you, young fathers, who are working hard to provide to your whole family while your wife stays home with her little kids! May God bless you! What a priceless, precious and loving [...]  








"I Found A Spiritual Man"

  2 years ago (Thu, Jun 17, 2021 at 04:58 PM)

A4P Guest: I thought I found a spiritual man who loves Christ more than he loves me and married him three years ago. But right after the wedding, I realized that all the spiritual things I thought he had were nothing but fake. I now don’t even think that he is a believer in Christ. He is addicted to all sorts of Internet filthy stuff and he has no plan to deal with it. As he told me, he became addicted to this thing ten years ago. Had I known about this while we were dating, I wouldn’t have married him but there was no way for me to know that. And he didn’t tell me even if...     Learn More ››








'Parenting Our Kids in Faith'

  2 years ago (Mon, Jun 14, 2021 at 10:11 AM)

The word “faith” is becoming a commodity that anybody is able to sell anytime and any day. People tend to say, “Just believe!”  








"We Love So Much That - - -"

  2 years ago (Sat, Jun 12, 2021 at 08:53 PM)

A4P Guest: I’m a 36 year-old woman and I’ve been dating a man (38 years old) for a couple years now. We both are born again Christians. This year, I was expecting him to propose to me but he doesn’t even talk about marriage at all. I told him in several occasions how much I desire to get married. But he usually changes the subject and avoids it totally. What do you advise me to do?  








Anger Can Destroy Marriages

  2 years ago (Tue, Jun 01, 2021 at 08:51 AM)

Anger is a natural emotion we all have. Since it is a natural reaction, it is one of the ways we know if someone is emotionally healthy as they react in anger for situations that can drive anybody nuts.  








SPEAK TO HIS BRAIN

  2 years ago (Wed, May 26, 2021 at 09:07 AM)

Men usually don’t understand “German.” They only understand straight talk, like,

Wife: “Hun, do you want a cup of tea?”

Husband: Yes, I do.

Wife: “Babe, would you please take the trash out?”

Husband: “I will. Just give me a second.”


This is called talking directly to a man’s brain, or, speaking to him in a language he can understand.

On the other hand, if a wife decides to speak to her husband in “German,” she tricks her husband’s brain (very important point to note):

Wife: “Our...     Learn More ››








A Man Dies Quickly If - - -

  2 years ago (Wed, May 19, 2021 at 09:02 AM)

“The life expectancy of a single man is equal to the man who smokes two packs of cigarettes a day.”

I read this research result probably nine years ago and whenever I think about it, it gives me Goosebumps.

And “Every cigarette smoking reduces a life of a person by 11 minutes,” says US National Library of Medicine.  








FIGHTING AGAINST PORN

  2 years ago (Fri, May 14, 2021 at 11:43 AM)

It is impossible to fight against porn alone.

Why?
You
always lose!

You see, darkness loves secrecy, loneliness! And when you invite another person to join you in your fight against porn, it is like saying “Yes” to light to shine on the dark area of your life.

If you are in Christ, you desire to run away from darkness. And when darkness tries to make its abode in your soul, you partner with another believer so the darkness loses its power on you.  








WHY DO MARRIAGES FALL APART WHEN – – –

  2 years ago (Tue, May 11, 2021 at 09:19 AM)

Why do marriages fall apart when a special need child comes to a family?

Many, many reasons but one of the major and common reasons is the fact that men and women are created differently.

I know; that reason again, right?

But it is true. Men and women are created equally but differently. When a special need child comes to a family, a father and a mother handle the situation differently and that difference creates stress, disagreement and conflict that can lead to a divorce.  








Teach Your Child About Money

  2 years ago (Mon, May 10, 2021 at 09:09 AM)

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Cha-ching! Talking to your children early about money can help them better understand what it is and how to save it.  








“YOU LOOK PRETTY, BABY!”

  2 years ago (Mon, May 10, 2021 at 08:58 AM)

I am not sure how many mirrors you have in your house but in my house, you can find at least one mirror in every room. Well, let me take that back. Only those rooms I spend most of my time have mirrors.

Why? I love to look at myself! I don’t think it is sinful for a woman to look at herself in the mirror to take care of herself; to keep herself neat, clean and beautiful. My husband is my number one motivator to take care of myself because he compliments me. I mean after all, I’m his bride; I’m his crown (Proverbs 12:4); I’m his glory (1 Corinthians 11:7). So I be...     Learn More ››








Heading Into A Mess

  2 years ago (Thu, May 06, 2021 at 10:14 AM)

It is wonderful to see couples tying the knot to be one, never to be two.

As a married person and a teacher in the area of sexual purity, I can’t tell you how I rejoice whenever I see a wedding.

Yes, the Bible says that marriage protects us from being soaked in sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 7). What a joy then to see someone escaping such a “ruthless tyrant” as sexual immorality!  








Being around children makes adults more generous, say researchers

  2 years ago (Wed, May 05, 2021 at 01:14 PM)

New psychology research suggests adults are more compassionate and donate more to charity when they are in the presence of children.  








Bill And Melinda Gates Announce Divorce

  2 years ago (Tue, May 04, 2021 at 09:47 AM)

Bill and Melinda Gates, who jointly run the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, the world’s largest private philanthropic foundation, announced on Monday they will divorce after 27 years of marriage.  








ከውጭው ያማረ ትዳር እና ቤት ውስጡ ግን

  2 years ago (Mon, May 03, 2021 at 11:22 AM)

 








Men and Relationships: What Works and What Doesn't

  2 years ago (Thu, Apr 29, 2021 at 10:03 AM)

 








Give US Evidence

  2 years ago (Fri, Apr 23, 2021 at 05:00 PM)

A4P Guest: Can you give us evidence why masturbation is wrong? When it’s been said that between 95 and 98 percent of young men are engaged in masturbation and the rest lie about it, don’t we add burden of guilt on men when we say masturbation is a sin?

A4P: Before I say anything, let me say this: “Burden of guilt” - guilt feeling, feeling sorrowful about what we do/did is a God-given emotion; it always leads to repentance when its source is the Holy Spirit.  








THE MESS OF VIRTUAL MARRIAGE

  2 years ago (Thu, Apr 22, 2021 at 12:13 PM)

A4P Guest: Is it okay for me to have sex on Skype with my wife?

A4P: You mean, you want to masturbate with your wife on Skype?

A4P Guest: I guess.

A4P: Why do you want to do that when you are able to sleep with her?

A4P Guest: She lives in Canada and I live in America.  








ዘ ባችለር የተሰኘው በኤቢሲ ቴሌቪዥን የሚሰራጨው ሪያሊቲ ሾው ባለፈው ሳምንት ማለትም ማርች አስራ አምስት ተጠናቋል፡፡

  2 years ago (Thu, Mar 25, 2021 at 10:20 AM)

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ዘ ባችለር የተሰኘው በኤቢሲ ቴሌቪዥን የሚሰራጨው ሪያሊቲ ሾው ባለፈው ሳምንት ማለትም ማርች አስራ አምስት ተጠናቋል፡፡ ማት ጀምስ የተባለውን ወንድ የግላቸው ለማድረግ ሰላሳ ሰá...     Learn More ››








Does ‘harsh parenting’ lead to smaller brains?

  2 years ago (Tue, Mar 23, 2021 at 03:28 PM)

A study shows that harsh parenting practices in childhood have long-term repercussions for children’s brain development.

Repeatedly getting angry, hitting, shaking or yelling at children is linked with smaller brain structures in adolescence, according to a new study.  








ልጅ ያለውን ሰው ከማግባቴ በፊት ምን ላድርግ

  2 years ago (Wed, Mar 17, 2021 at 08:47 AM)

 








A Prophet Told Me

  2 years ago (Tue, Mar 16, 2021 at 08:52 AM)

No one can fight against sin unless they are born of God.

“I will stop viewing porn,” is a good decision but the question is, can you put that decision to work? Probably for few days, but not for long.

Many people want to stop watching porn. If tears could have saved a person from porn, many would have been saved from porn addiction because they have cried their eyes out, thinking that God would see their tears and say, “Okay! That is enough! I will take that desire out of you.”  








Help! ልጆች ያሉትን ሰው ላገባ ነው

  2 years ago (Tue, Mar 09, 2021 at 11:18 AM)

Help! ልጆች ያሉትን ሰው ላገባ ነው  








High Testosterones???

  2 years ago (Thu, Mar 04, 2021 at 09:01 AM)

A4P Guest: “I’m a 24-year-old Christian man. I know that sex before marriage is a sin and I don’t want to sin against God but because of my unique sexual nature, I’m sinning against God almost every day with porn and everything. My sexual desire is getting stronger and stronger every day. What should I do to decrease it? It is driving me nuts!”  








High school students tend to get more motivated over time

  2 years ago (Wed, Mar 03, 2021 at 05:00 PM)

Parents may fear that if their high school student isn’t motivated to do well in classes, there’s nothing that will change that.

But a new study that followed more than 1,600 students over two years found that students’ academic motivation often did change – and usually for the better.

Results showed that increasing students’ sense of “belongingness” in school was one key way of increasing academic motivation.  








If A Woman Says - - -

  2 years ago (Tue, Mar 02, 2021 at 11:36 AM)

When an argument or a conflict erupts between a husband and a wife, I believe a man has to be very wise from which side he has to present his case.  








Empathy helps explain how parental support can prevent teenage delinquency, study on 4,000 children suggests

  2 years ago (Fri, Feb 26, 2021 at 02:53 PM)

A new study of nearly 4,000 school children has found that youngsters who feel they have empathic support from their parents and caregivers are verging away from a wide range of delinquent behavior, such as committing crimes.  








Plan B

  2 years ago (Fri, Feb 26, 2021 at 09:05 AM)

In a few words, Plan B or Morning After Pill is not a birth control pill but an abortion pill. It kills a child.  








An Excellent Wife

  2 years ago (Mon, Feb 22, 2021 at 09:08 AM)

The Bible says,

“An
excellent wife, who can find? For her worth is far above jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, And he will have no lack of gain.” Proverbs 31:10-11 NASB  








Study Suggests Link Between DNA and Marriage Satisfaction in Newlyweds

  2 years ago (Sun, Feb 21, 2021 at 03:34 AM)

Variation in a specific gene could be related to traits that are beneficial to bonding and relationship satisfaction in the first years of a marriage, according to a new study by a University of Arkansas psychologist.  








Character Traits A Husband Cannot Change

  2 years ago (Sun, Feb 14, 2021 at 02:38 AM)

The Bible says,

“In
the day when God created man, He made him in the likeness of God. He created them male and female,” Genesis 5:1b-2a NASB  
















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